yes, its true. your worst fears for me are being realized (kate). i am becoming a crazy cat woman. because two weeks ago when i took my grandma's poodle to get its hair did at the vets and saw on the door a sign that read 'free bengal cat' and then when i met said bengal cat and felt the words 'i'll take it' slip out of my mouth, i sealed my fate. but really how could i not take him? he's gorgeous, sweet, good natured, polite, and free! like flannery o'conner said 'a good man is hard to find'. so shoot me. the bad news is he and reuben don't get along at all. its lots of growling and hissing. sigh.